Ways of The Prophet (S.A.W)
by Sheikh Muhammad Abdul Hai ArifiCertain Sunnahs about marriage
- To marry is a sunnah for a man of means.
- To marry as soon as adulthood has been reached is sunnah.
- To send a formal proposal before nikah (marriage) is a sunnah.
- To send marriage proposal from either side is a sunnah.
- To look for pious and good (woman) is sunnah.
- To marry four women at the same time is permissible according to the QURAAN and sunnah provided one is able to deal with them justly.
- To marry a widow is a sunnah.
- To marry in the month of Shawalul Mukarram is Sunnah and is desirable. It brings blessings.
- To marry on Friday brings blessings is a sunnah.
- To announce solemnization of marriage is a sunnah.
- To hold the nikah ceremony (declaration and acceptance) in a mosque is a sunnah.
- To hold the nikah ceremony with simplicity and without any pomp and show is a sunnah.
- To fix a dower is a sunnah but it should not be beyond one’s means and should not be less than ten Uqiyah (40 dirhams)
- Both kinds of dower Muwajjal (deffered) and Mu’ajjal (prompt) are valid.